to the women who are wondering when they will get their pre-pregnant body back....

having a baby is the ultimate loss of virginity. The first time you have sex, your vag*na is stretched 'a bit' and may tear in a place or two, but bring a baby through there, and everything is changed, for life. Growing a baby changes your body, inside and out. Many women find that even when they weigh what they weighed before they got pregnant, their body shape and clothing size is completely different. This is caused by the hormones that relax your joints for childbirth, and once they are relaxed, they are prone to change shape. Pre-baby shape is a virgin shape. It would be folly to think that you could grow an entire additional human being and be unchanged in every single way imaginable.